Hearing With Our Eyes, Seeing With Our Ears

Hearing through my eyes.

Dear diary or my blog nice to be back troubling you. Today i am writing to de-stress my high stress levels.And shift my tensity onto others shoulder.Love the fact how everyone seems to know more about my life than I do.Especially my school friends know more about my life than i do that i don’t know myself, and vice-versa.

Makes me popular. So my write-up this time is about.Are there any telltale signs to recognise authenticity of people with eyes and ears closed.With so many parody accounts, one can really get confused with the authenticity.With lots of goof-up too surface on social media.

They say Eyes first evolved around 500 million years ago.And we actually see things upside down and our brain turns the image the correct way up.For the rest of our lives, our eyes too just like our complicated life continue to undergo different changes.So does it help read a authentic person too.These days i am boosting both mental and emotional immune system. My life experience taught me people think that a person who lives alone must be lonely, depressed and terribly unhappy. No woman they got it all mistaken. As

i am my best pal.I love my own company my privacy more than anything.I truly enjoy my life.I could go for long walks, sit enjoy nature,sip vodka, listen music,paint ,write,I could go to a restaurant ,movie and enjoy a meal.All alone.I love discotheque. And i love to shop all by myself.That don't mean i am lonely.Neither I am not anti- social.For me my solitude is very important. Those are the times when i need to be alone…I need that Me time.With just myself for company. And the point is the quieter we become, the more we can hear and see the fact.That is when I see with my ears. And nowadays i am trying my level best to see and live eyes wide open in a world that can’t see clearly.And so forth trying to see with my ears.Since i am collecting failure i call it a gerund.My ultimate goal now is of determining my corrective actions.But how?

I personally never and don't try hard to make others to like me.I don't live to impress anyone. Since i am a practical straight forward outspoken person.My mind is always processing information and life experiences.I believe that It is better to speak the truth that hurts and then heals, than falsehood that comforts and then kills.Throughout, I have lead my life with heart and vision.Everybody has their own way of expressing themselves.Me too.

And not everyone would be blessed with a personal life that they wished for.People nowadays have become sheeple.Some of my known friends are like this.Though it's none of my business.Until when they themselves come up & share it with me and need help from me.Now do i look like a counsellor seriously?Such people confuse me too. Its like I'm beating my head against a brick wall.But a new study assessing new age women infidelity dynamics has revealed that it’s in fact the modern-age moms(whether single, separated ,divorced or married) who are much more likely to give in easily to temptations and start searching for a prospective lover to kill their boredom. Recently i too have had an unpleasant encounter with a unpleasant childhood friend who thought thy verbally abused and threatened me mentally. Reason the person by mistake shared private life with me without me asking.Reasling the blunder thee made. Without thinking further the person vehemently attacked me.That too the blunder thy made. The person just came down censuring and criticize me very harshly.Without bothering about my emotions.And i could hear or see that fear in THEE vocabulary. I perceive it was to undermine my self-esteem and make me feel worse about myself and wanted me to exit. Sadly it didn't work out as the person wished.And instead backfired on the person itself.Thee was so overconfident of thees friends support in the group.But somehow one of her post was ignored and avoided by the same "so called" friends of thee. I assimilate such people depend on others to straighten out their our own cognitive dirty kinks.My sympathies are with such “dupes".If their so called best friends all jumped off a cliff, would they do the same.Yup woman.They would ofcourse.If such so called good friends make a separate group excluding and avoiding them.Yes ofcourse they would too make a 5's group avoiding them.Thats the scenario these days. A Hindi saying comes to my mind.

अहंकार में अंधे इंसान को न तो अपनी भूले नजर आती है ना ही दूसरों की अच्छी बातें.(A person blind in pride neither sees his own mistakes nor the good things of others.)

I love mentally powerful women.These days the new woman is a blend of physical freedom and sexuality.Whether it is Kamala Suraiyya,Shobha de or Arundhati Roy, Priyanka Chopra i love independent strong willed women.Just like my LBD (little black dress).Women now are liberated and free thinkers and eager to participate in pleasure as they would do in play, work etc. A woman who can combine pleasure, career and marriage.which they don’t want to waste in drudgery and dullness. Hence, they seek excitement and thrill outside. These women are not submissive, and guilty of their 5-6 multitasking multiple affairs. They are breaking the old age traditions of enjoying life with pre-marital affairs and extra-marital affairs. All ok.But the excess use of sexual matters causes discomfort and anger. That too destroying another married home. I have no issues with modern freedom but seriously i don't support extramarital affairs. The issue is if they jump on that bandwagon.Then have the guts to chew and endure on smelly garbage it brings along too.Don't be a baby crying for everything woman.I hate that sympathy given to somebody who is suffering from self righteousness.I don't promote extramarital affairs.As It destroys every single person involved. And they go around picturing themselves as sovereign individuals with unique minds, and try to forget that they have a strong strain of sheep in them.

Today it often gets difficult to know if someone else is trying to pull us down for their own motive.Society is so unpredictable.They say what they don't mean, or don't speak or stand up at all for right things.Yup appearances can be deceiving.They consider me a jester.But I don’t give a damn to what people around think of me.Nearly hopeless a forlorn attempt.Yes,but my imprudence and desperation levels are so dangerously high, I am afraid they just may

schism and breach the emotional dam and overflood my overwrought life, sweeping logic and judgement away.Caused by differences in opinion and belief. I know it's a profound chasm between various personalities, viewpoints, feelings etc.What can be done.I have come across such shitty people with severe mental rigidity apathy.People lacking empathy excessively criticize others for experiencing and expressing emotions in certain scenarios.Such self righteous people have that thirst to be in good books of everyone and will go to great lengths to please them.Such a person's promises are hollow and they rarely stick to what they say, only when it serves them in any way.So it's my opinion that in a world that’s divided by many binaries, it is difficult to spot the right people from the fake.

It's a undeniable cruel reality of life.Sometimes we are subjected to stressful situations, to people who rub us the wrong way.Just like the sound waves which are invisible to our eyes.They are like them. We all see from our ears.I read somewhere don't really remember where. That a new research shows that the Blind can see with their ears.Worse than being blind is having sight but no vision.Sounds logical to me.As our eye's is getting a broader view of the world, and more light is accessible to produce a clearer original image of the circumstances and people.Imagine we are deep in a forest and it's getting dark. All we can see are trees, animals but in shadows. A rich panoply of sounds will tell us what’s going on around us. I don’t know if it’s an illusion or reality, but i have experienced this phenomenon.But the woods and lake in front my house sound much noisier after dark.Much better than barking friends.So the thing is i see from my ears too. I also hear a lot of sounds which others don't hear.Like train chug chug and honking noices.According to others i am mad.Personally, as a rail fan, I love the sound of the horns as i have some amazing memories of childhood joined to it.Recalling my childhood days that carefree attitude. But I know some people don’t enjoy it.Its often referred to as the reflection of our mind.Eyes can definitely reveal many aspects of a person's character too.Everything changes when we practice living eyes and heart wide open.Blind people, build pictures using their sense of touch, and by listening to the echoes of clicks of their tongue and taps of their cane as these sounds bounce off objects in his surroundings, a technique called echolocation.I believe we can be way more is the point. Truth about every single molecule can only be recognized from heart..Our inner vision can only identify truth..What's happening around, what we see, what others compel us to see should not be always interpreted as truth.We all know the Sun rises in the east and sets in the west..it's a Universal fact..No one can change that..Everyone accepts this concept without hesitation.

The pressure to fit in the society is so high that people fake it if they can not make it. And If they can not afford a happy calm and glamorous life in reality they come on social media and groups to fake it. They wear a false mask to show off a false life and smile that doesn't come from a genuine place and intent itself..Do they acknowledge.That with an egoistic, hostile mind one can't reach to the level of truth..Some people willingly don't want to see truth because truth can alter their existing image..A fact i learnt from keeping my eyes wide open. I learnt that next time when we’re in a argument or debate, instead of backing down peacefully, be sure to let our adversary know that they are hardly the biggest, baddest person we’ve fought. I’m sure that’ll make them scared and definitely not angrier at us for insulting them.

There is a lot to learn from the story of Odin in Norse mythology and learn about Odin's eye.Its true that our eyes could be a tool for destruction or a blessing. Oftentimes i have felt that a person doesn't have to look at another to hear or understand them. We all believe in only one half that we see.Nonetheless, the reality is we all are hearing with our eyes and seeing with our ears.Thats how our brain combines sights and sounds to create conscious experience.

It's so funny that us humans can see stars glowing from millions of light-years away, we can see a wide range of colors, and we can see clearly for miles if our sight isn’t obstructed.But cannot see fake dupe people.

Negative,toxic and immoral actions lead to bad karma.Definitely Karma teaches all a befitting lesson.Me too!!!

So bibliophiles... Enough of my blether and nonsense. May the rest of your day sunny side up.😁