Of wanting to be noticed....ego is the dominant factor in our success. ...

What makes someone an attention seeker?Why they want to feel that they belong with the people they seek approval from.Why some people always crave the spotlight...?Einstein had to wait for 10 long years to taste recognition.Abraham Lincoln too was a 'Mr. Nobody' until the age of 40 and even when he did begin on his arduous Journey there was little if any hope in sight.It is very easy to live deluding ourselves that we are free, when in truth we are in our ego.The brain does nothing in response to failure.In other words, if you perform a task and are successful at it, our brain physically changes.And furthermore, those changes linger for several seconds, making a repeated success much more likely.But that is not true of our brain. It actually learns more from success than from failure.

In other words,The false identification with ourselves is very limiting.Think about it.It got me thinking though.I constantly find correcting myself when I find that I’m restricting my actions to what I think is expected and acceptable of someone of ‘my stature.Do any of you reading this post too admit to the fact that you have failed at anything in life? Do you admit it to yourself never mind others? Ego can be either blatant or subtle, but either way it is still deadly.You see whenever we hide such important data from ourself or others that's our ego kicking in again. It wants us to stay the same. It doesn't want us to take risks or move out of our comfort zone. If we are in our ego we are not free.The false identification with ourselves is very limiting.

There are many teachers , preachers and self-proclaimed saviors of human race who are living in self-deception and don’t even know it (or actually won’t admit it).There's another aspect of this belief that lectures don't work.Lack of humility is irresponsibility. Refusing to see our own ego is irresponsibility.I feel something like this very deeply in my psyche. I needed to lose myself in order to find myself.In order to find our true self but sometimes it helps to take a leap of faith.I’m constantly changing and evolving and I like who I am NOW. Right now! I’m not who is or was last year or even last month and every day I discover something new about myself, something I never knew I had in me.In order to find your true self but sometimes it helps to take a quantum leap of faith.

CHEERS TO LIFE !

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